Without knowing we do many things that are not favorable. Our subconscious mind rules over our personality. It’s the habit that rules our approach and decisions. Without having conscious awareness, it creates chaos in our day today decision making, and such type of flaws converts into bad habits. We generally have certain attitudes that work against us, without realizing that there are key points that are dragging us to failure. Such habits are hurdles in our career growth, and they need to be given up.
In many colleges like in Sharda University counselors and mentors try to remove these flaws through workshops, classes, trainings and activities. The Training and placement cell of Sharda try to groom the personality in a way, it is convincing and brings leadership qualities in students. Such types of flaws are taken seriously and are diligently worked upon to be removed. Those attitudes are as follows:
Waiting for luck
Waiting for luck is natural phenomenon. We wait for the day when everything will be at right place at right time forgetting that we should be prepared for the opportunity and should have control over our destiny rather waiting for destiny to decide. One should grab the opportunity and further more should create opportunity. Things don’t change on its own one need to work on it.
Needing approval
Don’t let others opinion rule over you and try to have confidence so that you are able to take right decision. One should have confidence in himself and charge the brigade before someone else takes the gift of present in front of your eyes.
Living in past
It should be remembered that past can’t be undone. What you have is present and hold on future. Plan your future implement it and taste the success. Looking back and getting troubled is waste of time and energy. It should not happen that you turn back and future goes away in front of you.
Trying to please everyone
One should not care for everybody. It’s always good to look at himself and challenge to his shortcomings. Trying to please others is wrong habit. It’s a great sign of leadership to give value to you. Respect yourself and listen to your heart. Taking advices from others is sign of looser.
Holding on to grudges
Holding grudges for others is waste of time. It kills the positivity in you with waste of energy too. Count the good relations and ignore the bad terms because it makes you more active and constructive. It’s a time not to bring you down but lift yourself up.
Professors at Sharda University play key role in mentoring the students, they try to remove above traits of personality and workout to groom them. They believe that above flaws gets into personality subconsciously and should be handled with psychological methods. There are many ways to deal with these flaws. Meditate, introspect, maintain diary, Have talk with close friend, observe the smart colleagues, all are required to groom yourself in fine manner. Whether interpersonal skills, our conscious psychology, or indiscipline approach all could be hurdles in our success story. At Sharda we are pledged to groom the students with flawless personality so that they come out as true winner. Not only that much we would be more contented and happy.
